Take a day where you make patience
your goal for the entire day. Make a
concerted effort to take your time and think about everything you do, be
mindful and live in the moment. At the end of the day, observe all the
ways in which you've made smarter decisions, got along better with others and
actually understood what took place. Learn to do it on a daily basis.
Developing patience is much like physical exercise because it requires
persistence and effort.
Slow down. If
you have the tendency to rush around and try to hurry things up, want things
done immediately and can't wait for things to take their natural course, STOP.
Take several deep breaths before you act or make a move. For example, if you're
in a long lineup at the grocery store or in heavy traffic, make the decision to
pause and not get worked up. Do some isometrics, listen to the radio, or just
enjoy the view. Getting impatient won't make things move along any faster, so
why get worked up for nothing?
Practice delaying gratification. When you want to reach for that dessert, second drink, or
buying your tenth pair of red shoes, stop and think about it first. Maybe you
don't need or want any of them that badly after all. You can save yourself some
money or added calories.
Practice thinking before you speak. At times we blurt out the first thought that comes into our
heads without considering the consequences. If we're patient, pause and go over
what we want to say, we can avoid hurting or offending others.
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